I dunno why this is so…but i really think that there is a genuine reason why people fall in and out or relationships and are unable to stay into one. 1) There is something really wrong with them 2) There is something really wrong with what they want
I classify these spinsters and bachelors into "LCNs". There are very deprived of affection, attention and simply cannot stand everyone in the whole world.
There is a difference between waiting for the right one and being unable to find the right one. These people have the most eccentric moods, that they cannot even live with themselves. They will even wanna scratch their own eyes out.
I met up with a few of these people is my life and will choose to stay FAR away from them.
My first encounter was someone i knew in secondary school. She was always angry about something that, all of us got tired of even bothering with finding out why she is angry. We gave her a nickname ’small gas" or ‘xiao qi’ in mandarin. Being ’small gas’ was her daily affair. Sometimes over tiny matters blown out of proportion.
Then a form teacher who realised that we were closer with the music teacher. One day, she came into class and started crying. She was very angry that we did not respect her as a form teacher. But what has got our choice in liking a teacher better, got to do with respect? I told my mum about it. And she asked me,"Is your teacher unmarried?" i said yes and she explains that somehow most unmarried spinsters somehow adopt wierd characters. I cannot understand her reactions but i do agree that she was wierd.
Later on, i had a friend whom was unfathomable. Initially it seemed cool to be so individulistic. But after many years, its becoming tiring to have to be ever cautious of what i say to her. Or having to guess when she is angry. Cos even after many years of knowing her…she is still unfathomable.
they say women’s heart is as deep as the ocean. she is really a classic example. If even i as a lady cannot understand her, even if she were to find the man of her dreams…he will go crazy trying to understand her.
These people have to so touchy about everything in the world. The way people talk or when people block their way.
They would say they yearn for conversation. They are actually soft inside and not as strong as how people see them to be. They are lonely at times and need company.
But yet…they were the ones that choose to be private. They do not like it when people tell them whats wrong. They do not choose to open up or approach others. Can we read minds?
I had a boss who thinks workers are dispensible. If one is no good, you can always find another. The market is out there for employers. She is a ‘LCN". Immersed into her work. No personal life. Still stays with her mother and working area is messy like hell. She changes staffs less than 3 months. I looked into her staff address book. Within a year, she had changed about 10 over staffs. Mostly staying not more than 1/2 a year. Needless to say, i was next to go too.
At one stage, i was so afraid that one day i would become a "LCN" too. Eccentric. Insufferable. A torture to the people around.
When you age, you should age gracefully. Just like how some elderly can be so stubborn and shun people around them. And there are other elderly who can be so approachable and would draw people to care for them.
These ‘LCNs" have not aged gracefully. They experienced setbacks, disappointments and betrayal. They are filled with bitterness and anger with the whole world. They have hardened their hearts to everyone around them. Please lah. Give the people around you a break. GROW UP!
A lesson i have learnt so far. To leave these people alone. Cos there are too many other things in my life that is worth sacrificing my time for. And not to follow these "LCNs" into their neverending cycle of angry-happy-ignore-angry-happy-ignore
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