"I have learnt not to stifle his need to strive for better. But to encourage him to learn to achieve his goals in the righteous and motivating method. Next time if he tells me," Mummy, my friend has that and i don't" I will no longer tell him to be happy with what he has. But will let him know he can have it, and what he can do to achieve it. Our kids should not be limited in wanting to attain better. And to be spurred towards a mindset that if they try hard, they can achieve anything."